Hello again sweetie pies! Isn't it just a beautiful day? I tell ya, I have been in such a great mood ever since I met my new beau. There is something about this Cutie that just gets my mojo going! He seems to know me so well. He actually took me shopping – yes, shopping – the other day. And it was unprovoked by me! Now ladies, how many men would voluntarily put themselves in that position? But he knew I loved it, so he did it to make me happy. Now that's a good egg right there. And I should know because I've certainly smelled a bunch of rotten ones in my time!

Anyway, let's get back to you, darlings. Give it to me straight, and I'll advise:

hugforfree: Hi, miss__thang. I was just wondering if you could help me out. Well my ex bf on Zwinky dumped me and quit Zwinky. I was really sad, and I still miss him. Well here's the really big problem...there's this new guy. Well the new guy likes me, and I've known him for a really long time, and I've had a crush on him for a really long time and I still do like him. But he said he might start looking for somebody else because I told him I really like him but I don't know if I'm ready... PLEASE help me. I really, really like this guy.

Ultimatums have never sat well with Miss Thang. And here's why: it's basically a scare tactic to push you into doing something you may not be ready to do. If this guy REALLY likes you, he'll understand that you are going through something rough and will be there to offer you support. He'll also be patient enough to wait since you are quite the catch I imagine. In the end, though, it's your decision, love. But if you aren't ready and you do take the plunge, you may enter into something that never had a chance in the first place. Think about it.

mario-scygen85: Dear miss___thang, I need your advice. It's about me and my gf. It's kind of a love quarrel, as you see miss___thang, I lost her a week ago and I love her and I want her back. please help me I can't move on without her...there's no one out there like her! I know I've been a fool to her and I ask her for a chance, but she won't forgive me! And she won't let me explain! And there's this guy in Zwinky she met a week ago, she said she loves that guy. I know she already moved on. Well that guy looks like an alien, even in Zwinky! But I don't know where that martian came from. and I feel for my gf cause that guy hurt her once! I felt sad for her that time! So I tried to cheer her up for once! But the important thing is that I love her and I show that i care for her and I want her back! She is what I think of every day! And sometimes she's the one who's picking me up when I'm down and she is the one who tries to make me feel better! Please tell me what I'm gonna do!

Always love hearing from my male fans. Now I'm curious about what you say about "being a fool" to her. That can mean many, many things, Mario. The fact is if you screwed up, you may have to face the consequences. It's ultimately her call on what she wants to do with her feelings. In terms of our little alien friend here, he could have three green heads and two purple noses and it still wouldn't matter. Apparently, she loves him. And I hate to see any fabulous female make a bad choice for herself, but if she knows this alien dude is bad, then she's taking the risk of getting hurt in her own hands.

Now, all this doesn't mean you can't fight for your damsel. In fact, I think most ladies, myself included, love to feel desired. Best of luck, sire. May you end up victorious in your quest. And with any luck, her out-of-this-world friend will beam back up to the mother ship.

lillkinz4499: Hi Miss Thang! I know you get a lot of znotes but this is SOOO important!!!! Anyway my boyfriend (or so I think) has this ex. Well she keeps saying that my boyfriend is still with her and he's cheating on me! But I don't believe her cuz he said it's not true... but I kind believe her cause she would never lie! Even though she is his ex we are friends... PLEASE help Miss Thang! (p.s. I read your blog everyday it's awesome!!!)

First off, I'm so glad you enjoy my posts. I'm never one to not acknowledge a compliment, so thank you, sweets!

Ok, now back your dilemma. I definitely need more details here. How close are you with this chickadee? And how much do you trust your man? Plus, why did they break up in the first place? Was he cheating on her? Too many questions here, if you ask me.

You seem to be putting more trust into this friend of yours instead of your beau (although if she is such a good friend, why are you dating her ex?) Here's the deal: You have to assess who you can trust more and then go with your gut. Nothing else will serve you better.

Alright, I'm out! I figure it's my turn to do something nice for my BF so I'm making dinner tonight – well attempting to at least. Miss Thang tends to make better reservations that cuisine. Wish me luck! And keep sending those questions my way! Later!