The Best Love Advice from Miss Thang!
Hello my loves! How is everyone this fine February? I myself have been doing pretty well, although I've been dealing with a bit of a Bermuda love triangle as of late. You see, never being one to settle, I made three dates on Valentine's Day. A girl's gotta eat, right? So I had breakfast, lunch and dinner covered. My dates and my meals were absolutely delicious. But now, two weeks later, I'm still fielding calls from all three who are all looking for a relationship. Now, Miss Thang is just not ready to settle down, know what I mean? I can barely make a commitment to a new pair of heels, let alone a man right now. So I'm in a bit of a sitch myself. I don't want to break their hearts, but I refuse to cramp my style. What would you do? I'd love to hear your advice to me!
Here's a few details about them:
Mr. Breakfast is a sportsaholic who loves anything and everything having to do with getting his blood pumping (which is of course why he asked me out!) Mr. Lunch is a powerhouse businessman whose wallet is as big as his heart (okay, maybe that cash roll is a bit bigger.) And Mr. Dinner, well, he's the Casanova, a musician who penned a tune just for me! True, they are all wonderful guys (see ladies, I told you they exist.) But I'm really in a pickle here. How do I break the news gently to all three of them without hurting any feelings? I could really use your help! Leave me a Znote and let me know!

In the meantime, let me get to your pressing questions!
shadow-demonprincess: Hey miss__thang, this is Shadow. I have this guy friend and I REALLY like him. But ever since this girl he really loved broke up with him, he has given up on love. And now I can't talk to him because I won't act normal...Should I just tell him or keep quiet so I won't ruin our friendship? Please help!
Girlfriend, this question has plagued both men and women forever! The fact is that your friend is in a tough place right now. He had his heart broken and is probably feeling pretty fragile. What he really needs is a confidante who will listen to him cry and dry his tears. Now, that's not to say that love is not in your future. In fact, the more he sees you as a source of support in his life, the more likely he'll also begin to see you as more than a friend when he's ready. But remember sweetie, timing is EVERYTHING! So be patient, be a friend and be ready...because when he's prepared to love again, you may just be on deck!
mylittledevil77: Hey miss_thang. I need some advice please. It worries me every day, and I can't get it out of my head until I'm asleep...I met this guy on Zwinky and we have been going out for almost 7 months but i keep worrying about him breaking up with me and I have asked my friends if they think me and my bf can make it until we are at least 19 and they say no... Me and my bf have gotten into 1 or 2 really bad fights but instead of loving each other less we just loved each other even more and we haven't broken up in all of the months that we have been going out. I haven't caught him cheating on me and I don't cheat on him so do you think you can tell me if you think me and my bf can make it until we are at least 19 which by the way is about 5 or 6 years away. So could you please answer me or at least tell me how I can stop worrying so much please!
Well I certainly don't doubt that you feel quite strongly for Mr. Perfect (I don't think anyone would after reading your question!) But love, based on my math and yours, it appears you are only 14 or 15 years old. That's a lot of pressure to be putting on yourself at such a young age, don't you think? Now I'm not saying you won't be able to make it. In fact, it sounds like you two have a pretty solid start. But let fate take its course. If you are meant to be, trust me, it'll be. And if not, well, just be careful about making three dates on the same day!
xxcookie-loverxx: Dear Miss Thang, I need some advice. I was dating this guy, but he cheated on me after 2 months of going out. He said the girl he cheated on me with was gonna hurt herself if he didn't go out with her so he did then he had to play the whole "I love her more than you" thing so she'd believe him. Well, then he finally breaks it off with her, and started dating my friends, but he was still telling me he loves me and wants to get back with me. But he kept going out with my friends till about a week ago. Then he asked me back out and I said yes. He dumped me the next day cause he said he was ashamed cause he got drunk the night before and got with another girl. Well, now he's BACK with one of my other friends and still saying he wants to be with me and I'm completely confused cause I have EVERYONE I know telling me different stuff and I'm completely lost!!!! Plz give me some advice!!!!!! I'm desperate!!!!
Okay, I'm going to give you some straightforward advice here, and I can only hope that you will listen to me. You ready? Okay here it is: MOVE ON! This guy is a rat, plain and simple. And what's worse is that he keeps getting more and more chances to inflict more pain! Clearly this is someone who wants his cake, cookies, brownies and anything else that might be on the table. You are just too good for this. Trust me, there are good ones out there, but he is simply not one of them. Someone who loves you doesn't get with other girls behind your back, doesn't date your friends and certainly doesn't dump you one day after getting back with you. So show yourself the respect you deserve and get those boots a walkin'. Because if you don't, you'll only be able to blame yourself for any future hurt.
Okay everyone, that's all I got for today. Don't forget to give me some of your keen advice on love and tell me what to do with my suitors that just don't suit me! See you soon!
















